There was a very flamboyant/eccentric effeminate skinny (kinda' creepy) older man in our Congregation who was a wealthy hairdresser and was married to an elderly non JW woman. He admitted that he was attracted to both men and women and unbelievably was somehow DF'd several times for carrying on with both sexes. The last time I knew of, he was in his high 70's and was involved in a car accident in the wee hours of the morning while drinking and driving and his young female passenger ( a bar-maid) was injured and he had a stroke. He recovered but eventually he died of old age and l understand he left a lot of his money to different collection of young single brothers he had befriended over the years.
There was a boy in our Hall who was an elders son and he was a sweet kid but was more like a girl than a boy and stayed that way as he grew up. In his late teens, much to everyones surprise, he got engaged to a very nice heavyset girl at the Hall and his father was over the moon about it. When he told us about the engagement, he said "Yes...he is a Man after all !!"
They couple got married. He with his dyed blonde hair and she in an enormous white wedding dress. We wondered who would carry the bouquet. Unbelievably, they soon had a son but not surprisingly, they ended up getting divorced a few years later. Over the years he was shunned by his family. He eventually married another man and he is a very nice person but is still unbelievably effeminate, so much that you have to wonder if he's mentally "all there". He and his gay husband and his former wife (who remained single) and their now grown son (who is also gay) are all on good terms and seem to be doing well. Decades later, the Elder father passed away so now his mother and the rest of his family are back in contact with he and his gay family members. They seem to be making things work.
You can't make this stuff up.
